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Archive for December, 2009

Thoughts that have come up within the context of a relationship

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– she is somehow unsatisfied and isn’t telling me

– looking for a reason to leave

– how much to share vs not share (actual stuff vs thoughts that aren’t connected to reality), then having challenging feelings ‘well, i don’t want to start strategizing when talking with my gf, we are supposed to be able to be open and honest with each other about everything’

– tendency to want to cling to the more intense feelings…worry about ‘if its not intense at all times then i must not really like her’

– when in a situation to offer guidance/advice/support, i feel as if i shift into a different ‘self’, with a different way of communicating that feels less ‘connected/in the moment/on the same

– questioning whether my needs are being met emotionally

– layers of feeling bad about feeling bad

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December 14th, 2009 at 6:24 pm

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